What are you giving & getting this year?

We know gift guides are everywhere this time of year, but that’s because they’re the best! For all those listeners out there who were wondering what to send us for your year-end holiday of choice, all your questions are answered in today’s episode! For real, though, we’ve put together an extensive list of great gifts for writers, beyond just the usual pens and writing books (though we do love those). Giving a writing-related gift to a writer is an excellent way to show them you believe in their writing, that you recognize them as a “real” writer, even when they don’t (whatever “real” writer means). There are enough ideas here to help you out all year.

You can listen to the episode and see full show notes on the episode page, but we’ve put the list below too. We also shared some favorites in Episode 4 (like my typewriter t-shirt), so check that out as well.

We’d love to hear what other gifts you come up with! We’ll be sharing pics of our own favorites from this list all week on Instagram using  #marginallypodcast — we’d love for you to join in!

(By the way, all brands named here are here because we like them; we have no sponsorship or any other agenda.)

gift guide

Tools

  • Fountain pen (Meghan loves hers – it’s the Pelikan Souveran M400 here)
  • A bunch of their favorite pen (Olivia loves the Staedtler triplus fineliner)
  • Notebooks (too many to link to here, but you should check if the person you’re buying for likes to write with or without lines)
  • Notebook covers (this one from Foxy Fix is on Meghan’s wish list; the No. 9 will fit a full-size composition notebook)
  • Writing books – we will put some inspiration the blog & Instagram, from our collections, a bit later and add a link here
  • Pencils (Meghan likes the Target dollar spot ones with no erasers, and also these and these from Get Bullish. CW Pencil Enterprise seems to be the place for fancy-pants pencil-related fun, though we have no experience with them, so this isn’t an endorsement)
  • Pencil sharpeners (Olivia loves vintage ones like this one, probably because she doesn’t use pencils a lot; Meghan’s mentioned her basic X-Acto XLR electric one more than once)
  • Fingerless gloves
  • Index cards
  • Post-it notes

 

Tech gifts

  • Web-blocking tools to help them focus, like Freedom
  • Scrivener (a license is $45)
  • Bluetooth headphones
  • Bluetooth speakers to let you play music out loud
  • Their own domain name
  • Volunteer to help as tech support, offer to clean up their computer or help with other skills they may need (bookkeeping, organization, etc.)
  • Print their blog and print it out

 

Inspiration & self-care

  • Get them a yoga class or a pass to their studio
  • Send them into the world for inspiration – maybe a membership at a state or national park, a local museum, etc.
  • Get them a writing class at your local university (most, including community colleges, will have continuing education), a class at a writing institute if you have one nearby, an online class or even something like The Great Courses
  • You could even plot out your favorite walk(s) nearby, draw them a map or describe the route so they notice the things you really enjoy
  • Make them a playlist – old-school like a mix-tape, or new-school like a 42-hour classical Spotify playlist.

 

Rituals

  • Tea accessories – Teapot, tea cozy
  • Candles (possibly a cliche, but we love them, so whatever)
  • Incense and other things that smell nice
  • Tea and coffee subscription boxes
  • Make them a homemade collage, or an illustrated quote (from their writing, or someone else they like)
  • A gift from Quotabelle – a site that focus on researching and publicizing inspiring quotes by women
  • Make them a bulletin board or give them other decorative things for their writing space

 

Time gifts

  • Watch their kids or pay for babysitter – and pick a specific time if you can, so they don’t have to even do any work to take you up on it
  • You could splurge for a night in a nearby resort or hotel, if you want to go all out
  • Or offer them a weekend at your house when you’re out of town
  • Or even your spare room when you are there – and promise to let them write uninterrupted
  • If cooking for themselves or their family takes a lot of time or energy, you could try food subscriptions or a nice meal
  • Or even just do a chore they complain about doing, to make their life easier (like putting away the laundry)

 

Donations

  • PEN International – advocacy for writers
  • Scholar Rescue Fund
  • Wish lists for adjuncts and other educational professionals
  • Donors Choose – support underfunded classrooms (in the US)
  • Youth outreach or creative writing programs in your local area (or someone else’s)
  • International educational foundations like the Malala Fund
  • Local libraries and Friends of your local Library – you could donate books or money
  • Literacy foundations
  • Little Free Library – donate or buy it for someone else
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Episode 13 is up, and we tell you how Thanksgiving really went

We were on holiday last week, celebrating American Thanksgiving with our families, so we’re bringing you a quick mini-episode with check-ins from the week. We’ll be back to our regular schedule next week, when we kick off a month of self-care for writers. Listen here or subscribe on iTunes, Stitcher, Google Play, or wherever get your podcasts.

Have questions you’d like us to try to answer? Let us know in the comments, or send us an email.

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9 tips for being a writer at Thanksgiving (or any holiday)

Thanksgiving is tomorrow in the United States, and that means travel, family, friends, houseguests, late nights, and lots of food and drink — all things that can wreck your writing routine. In this week’s episode, Olivia and I talked about ways you can make sure you don’t feel like you’ve been derailed but don’t have to lock yourself away in a hermitage (unless that’s your thing — it’s totally my dream life, so I’m not judging).

So whether or not you’re participating in NaNoWriMo, whether or not you’re closing in on 50,000 words for the month or are stuck at 500, all of these can help you stay connected to your writing when life around you gets out of control.

top tips for being a writer at thanksgiving or holidays

1. Stay engaged with the craft

It’s hard to stick to a firm schedule when you’re traveling or tired. Instead of pushing yourself to write during down time, try reading or rereading your favorite book on writing. We love Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, and Natalie Goldberg’s Writing Down the Bones is great for quick shots. In episode 11, Alicia de los Reyes recommends On Writing by Stephen King.

You could also try a podcast or two. We cover our favorites in episodes 3 and 12, and you can check out a handy list on Instagram.

2. Take notes

Keep track of those great ideas! I carry a notebook with me most places, but always at least have an index card or some post-its. You can also record a voice memo or take a quick note on your phone. Even if you don’t have time to do anything with the idea right away, you’ve saved it for later.

3. Use jet lag

Waking super early (or up really late) because of jet lag? Take advantage of the time when others are sleeping and use that time for yourself and your writing.

4. Decide ahead of time

Be honest with yourself about how what you’ve been able to do in the past, and make a choice about how much — if any — you’ll write during the holiday period. Not writing feels a lot better if you are doing it on purpose. Making a plan ahead of time can also help you get back to your routine after Thanksgiving.

5. Whatever you do is enough

Even if you don’t decide ahead of time, that’s okay. It’s totally okay to do nothing, and it’s okay to change your plans. You are okay.

6. Help out your future self

Write a note to yourself about where you are so it’s easier to re-engage after a break (planned or unplanned). This is a helpful practice to use every day, and you’ll feel less overwhelmed by what you haven’t done yet.

7. Be gentle with yourself

Holiday gatherings are hard, even with the happiest of families and friends. Don’t add more stress by beating yourself up over what you are and aren’t writing. You don’t need to catch up if you miss a day or three — just start where you are and do the best you can. You’re doing great!

8. Honor your feelings

If you’re finding yourself getting anxious or desperate to get some words on paper, sneak away for 15-20 minutes. Take a walk, or go find a quiet room. No one will notice, and even a short break can be all you need.

9. Only share what you want (and don’t apologize)

We’ve all been there — the well-meaning (or not) question about your writing. “Are you published yet?” or even just, “How’s your writing going?” Think about what you want to say and direct the conversation there. Chances are, the person is just trying to connect with you, and not looking for all the details of your agent hunt. Even if they are, it’s okay not to answer and change the subject. You don’t have to apologize.

 

That’s it! What’s your best advice for balancing writing and holidays? Let us know, and if you try any of our tips, we’d love to hear how it goes!

-Meghan

 

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