Episode 72: Our origin story & a mini-book club on friendship books

We go way back in this episode, to the beginning of our friendship – those fraught 6 weeks at the beginning of college where you may or may not make incorrect judgments about who you do or don’t like.

We talk about how our friendship has gotten closer over time, and what has bonded us, even when we don’t physically see each other that much.

And then we rely on Meghan’s deep knowledge of friendship books, and the project she’s doing to think about them as a genre: what counts as a friendship book (or story), and why are we so drawn to them? It’s basically a very excellent book club.

Check out Meghan’s excellent syllabus on Entropymag here.

Send us your favorite friendship books/TV shows/movies, and we’d also love to hear about your favorite literary friendships, if you’re into that.

That time we met up in Poland

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Theme music is “It’s Time” by Scaricá Ricascá. 

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In this episode:

Happier in Hollywood podcast

House of Pies

Dar Williams

Zadie Smith’s Swing Time

Caroline Calloway and her ghostwriter friend Natalie

Romy & Michele’s High School Reunion

The scene in Romy & Michele where they argue about who’s the Mary

Elena Ferrante’s Neopolitan quartet (starting with My Brilliant Friend)

Golden Girls

Mary McCarthy’s The Group

Meg Wolitzer’s The Interestings

Hanya Yanagihara’s A Little Life

Sally Rooney’s Conversations with Friends

Rumaan Alam’s Rich & Pretty

Care and Feeding column, which Rumaan Alam co-writes with Nicole Cliffe and two other authors

Big Little Lies (HBO series and book by Liane Moriarty)

Meghan’s syllabus

Elizabeth Gaskill’s Cranford

Mean Girls

Clueless

Jane Austen’s Emma

Lisa See

Toni Morrison’s Sula

And:

If you like Marginally, you should check out #amwriting, with Jess and KJ, where two much more experienced writers talk through their processes with each other and celebrated guests.